My question involves a marriage in the state of: District of Columbia
After 19 years of marriage my wife has asked me to move out and get my own place. Everything is in my name. She is not on my mortgage, not on the title for any of the vehicles we own and everything is paid by me. We do not share a bank account nor any credit cards. Last Friday I believe she lost her job but she still wants me to move immediately. She hasn't admitted to me that she's lost her job yet but I am 100% sure she did and therefore she has no ability to support herself since she was either fired or she quit. Part of me thinks this is a calculated move and that she quit.
Either way, I am concerned about two issues, leaving the house as she has requested and the legal implications of such (i.e. abandonment) and financial stability for my three teenage boys if I do leave. I cannot afford to move out and pay for two households if she has no job. It was doable with her income as part of the equation but I cannot afford two households of expenses. When I stated that I would stay in the house and continue to reside in the basement until she found a job she stated that she would leave the house. She means everything to my boys and I do not want them to be separated from their mother but I feel like I am being set up and that she will be due a big payday.
Should I leave the house as requested? I am miserable but will survive knowing that the boys are taken care of and I am not financially stressed. 2) Is she up to no good?
After 19 years of marriage my wife has asked me to move out and get my own place. Everything is in my name. She is not on my mortgage, not on the title for any of the vehicles we own and everything is paid by me. We do not share a bank account nor any credit cards. Last Friday I believe she lost her job but she still wants me to move immediately. She hasn't admitted to me that she's lost her job yet but I am 100% sure she did and therefore she has no ability to support herself since she was either fired or she quit. Part of me thinks this is a calculated move and that she quit.
Either way, I am concerned about two issues, leaving the house as she has requested and the legal implications of such (i.e. abandonment) and financial stability for my three teenage boys if I do leave. I cannot afford to move out and pay for two households if she has no job. It was doable with her income as part of the equation but I cannot afford two households of expenses. When I stated that I would stay in the house and continue to reside in the basement until she found a job she stated that she would leave the house. She means everything to my boys and I do not want them to be separated from their mother but I feel like I am being set up and that she will be due a big payday.
Should I leave the house as requested? I am miserable but will survive knowing that the boys are taken care of and I am not financially stressed. 2) Is she up to no good?
Divorce: Divorce
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