My question involves restraining orders in the State of: california
Hello,
I have been dealing with my daughters dad for 12 years.
He has repeatedly accused me of kidnapping by calling the police and/or the DA filing complaints against me. The most recent one he said that i kidnapped his daughter 8 yrs ago.
The truth is, he has made no attempts to be in her life, has hung up the phone when ive called, failed to pick her up when Ive drove hours to meet him and has done a good job of playing games. He accuses me of kidnapping when child support finds him.
He and his mother would harass me through email and text but had no intent to see the child for years to the point that I developed major anxiety and kept my phone on silent and still do 8 years later.
His mother threatened to kill me and regularly wrote me 10 plus page emails (no exaggeration) threatening to ruin my life, saying it would be her career "like rocky" and called me disgusting, horrible names. I do have one copy of one of the emails. However, I deleted the email account years ago because I couldnt handle the harassment. Now I wish I had kept them and filed a protection order.
Fast forward he has accused me of kidnapping again even though he had not seen her in almost 9 years and has failed to attempt to see her. He is filing for custody and child support. My daugher is terrified. She doesnt know him at all.
He has obtained a job at a private investigation company and has gathered tons of information about me. He submittrd an encyclopedia (!!!) sized manuscript with his case full of every youtube video ive liked or watched, my myfitness pal accounts, my pinterest pins, private photos of me and my children, private videos of my kids surfing, my husband, my friends, my linkedin account, every address ive ever lived at, every school, every post on facebook that he could dig up, my hair school porfolio photos, any ticket I have ever gotten and page upon page of photos of me. I have no idea how he got them. My facebook is pretty private. I dont think ive covered everything he put in that manuscript.
For one, none of this is admissible in court. None of it is evidence! But I am extremely creeped out that he is monitoring me online and has hundreds of photos of me and my children and family and everything ive enjoyed online. He has a wife and family, and he could has spent his time with them or called his 'missing' daughter.
I feel like I am being watched and as if these people are going to start harassing me and threatening me again and it worries me a lot. I thought I got away from them.
Do I have any grounds for obtaining a protection order? Can he use his contacts at a pi company to monitor me and gather information that isnt even admissible in court? Please help.
Hello,
I have been dealing with my daughters dad for 12 years.
He has repeatedly accused me of kidnapping by calling the police and/or the DA filing complaints against me. The most recent one he said that i kidnapped his daughter 8 yrs ago.
The truth is, he has made no attempts to be in her life, has hung up the phone when ive called, failed to pick her up when Ive drove hours to meet him and has done a good job of playing games. He accuses me of kidnapping when child support finds him.
He and his mother would harass me through email and text but had no intent to see the child for years to the point that I developed major anxiety and kept my phone on silent and still do 8 years later.
His mother threatened to kill me and regularly wrote me 10 plus page emails (no exaggeration) threatening to ruin my life, saying it would be her career "like rocky" and called me disgusting, horrible names. I do have one copy of one of the emails. However, I deleted the email account years ago because I couldnt handle the harassment. Now I wish I had kept them and filed a protection order.
Fast forward he has accused me of kidnapping again even though he had not seen her in almost 9 years and has failed to attempt to see her. He is filing for custody and child support. My daugher is terrified. She doesnt know him at all.
He has obtained a job at a private investigation company and has gathered tons of information about me. He submittrd an encyclopedia (!!!) sized manuscript with his case full of every youtube video ive liked or watched, my myfitness pal accounts, my pinterest pins, private photos of me and my children, private videos of my kids surfing, my husband, my friends, my linkedin account, every address ive ever lived at, every school, every post on facebook that he could dig up, my hair school porfolio photos, any ticket I have ever gotten and page upon page of photos of me. I have no idea how he got them. My facebook is pretty private. I dont think ive covered everything he put in that manuscript.
For one, none of this is admissible in court. None of it is evidence! But I am extremely creeped out that he is monitoring me online and has hundreds of photos of me and my children and family and everything ive enjoyed online. He has a wife and family, and he could has spent his time with them or called his 'missing' daughter.
I feel like I am being watched and as if these people are going to start harassing me and threatening me again and it worries me a lot. I thought I got away from them.
Do I have any grounds for obtaining a protection order? Can he use his contacts at a pi company to monitor me and gather information that isnt even admissible in court? Please help.
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