My question involves a child custody case from the State of: MA
Hi! I have a 3.5 month old daughter named Hanna. We will call her father C. I live in MA (where Hanna was conceived). C moved to Florida in early January under the impression that I would meet him down there when he got an apartment. I found out I was pregnant and instead decided to stay in MA where my family and health insurance is. I live with my parents still. C stayed in Florida. He never came to visit while I was pregnant and didn't come to his only daughters birth. Whatever. No big deal. But he didn't ever come to see her after she was born either, and still hasn't.
We broke up while I was pregnant because of him being verbally abusive and unsupportive of the pregnancy. The whole pregnancy, he made my life a living hell. Told me I should abort the child and tried to theeaten me and scare me into changing my mind and ending the pregnancy. Obviously I didn't and now I am blessed with this angel.
I should add that I was a heroin addict and got clean when I found out I was pregnant. I have now been clean for a whole year with no desire to return to my old life. I have been passing weekly drug tests since pregnancy. C is an alcoholic.
I filed for child support and to establish paternity. C immediately started with more threats and scare tactics to try to get me to "close pandoras box" as he puts it. (Doesn't even make sense to me but whatever) Among those threatas, are him saying that since I am a former addict, he can get custody of the child. He will have his mom help take care of her and he is more capable of being the custodial parent.
I know he doesn't want her. I know he is just trying to avoid paying child support. I have many texts saying that his goal in life is to make me miserable, that his child is nothing to him, I should have killed myself while pregnant and he is "seconds away from committing himself". There is more and worse texts from him. The point is he is abusive and I don't trust him with my daughter alone let alone have custody of her. She is exclusively breastfed anyway.
He also said he wants to move to east Asia and get out of the country. He didn't say anything about taking her, but him just saying that is scary enough.
Are all of these text messages proof that he is not mentally stable? Are they even relevant? Will the judge look at them? Does he have a chance at getting custody? What about 50/50 custody? We were never married. I told him he can see her whenever he wants, just with me there, and I mean it. I want my daughter to have a father, but I don't want her to be emotionally abused by him like I put up with for over 2 years. What can I do to protect my child?
Sorry this is long and all over the place. He is trying to scare me and it's absolutely working.... Thanks so much for taking the time to read this.
Hi! I have a 3.5 month old daughter named Hanna. We will call her father C. I live in MA (where Hanna was conceived). C moved to Florida in early January under the impression that I would meet him down there when he got an apartment. I found out I was pregnant and instead decided to stay in MA where my family and health insurance is. I live with my parents still. C stayed in Florida. He never came to visit while I was pregnant and didn't come to his only daughters birth. Whatever. No big deal. But he didn't ever come to see her after she was born either, and still hasn't.
We broke up while I was pregnant because of him being verbally abusive and unsupportive of the pregnancy. The whole pregnancy, he made my life a living hell. Told me I should abort the child and tried to theeaten me and scare me into changing my mind and ending the pregnancy. Obviously I didn't and now I am blessed with this angel.
I should add that I was a heroin addict and got clean when I found out I was pregnant. I have now been clean for a whole year with no desire to return to my old life. I have been passing weekly drug tests since pregnancy. C is an alcoholic.
I filed for child support and to establish paternity. C immediately started with more threats and scare tactics to try to get me to "close pandoras box" as he puts it. (Doesn't even make sense to me but whatever) Among those threatas, are him saying that since I am a former addict, he can get custody of the child. He will have his mom help take care of her and he is more capable of being the custodial parent.
I know he doesn't want her. I know he is just trying to avoid paying child support. I have many texts saying that his goal in life is to make me miserable, that his child is nothing to him, I should have killed myself while pregnant and he is "seconds away from committing himself". There is more and worse texts from him. The point is he is abusive and I don't trust him with my daughter alone let alone have custody of her. She is exclusively breastfed anyway.
He also said he wants to move to east Asia and get out of the country. He didn't say anything about taking her, but him just saying that is scary enough.
Are all of these text messages proof that he is not mentally stable? Are they even relevant? Will the judge look at them? Does he have a chance at getting custody? What about 50/50 custody? We were never married. I told him he can see her whenever he wants, just with me there, and I mean it. I want my daughter to have a father, but I don't want her to be emotionally abused by him like I put up with for over 2 years. What can I do to protect my child?
Sorry this is long and all over the place. He is trying to scare me and it's absolutely working.... Thanks so much for taking the time to read this.
Custody and Visitation Issues: Is There a Chance That My Verbally Abusive X Will Get Any Kind of Custody of My Baby
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