My question involves a child custody & child support from the State of: Ohio
So I met what is soon to be first child's mother back in May. We dated for a few months then I ended things - we just didn't have the connection. I met another woman and was in a relationship with her when the (soon to be child's mother) called me - telling me that she thought she was pregnant. I had her come to my office where we went and found out she was indeed....pregnant. I know this is all beside the point but still necessary. Since this time, I have ended the relationship I was in with the other woman and tried to work on things with the mother-to-be. Obviously - It is still not working out - at all, she is going through the lunatic stage and basically everything is my fault - I'm wrong - I don't care - etc etc etc when all I'm trying to do is help her and be there for her. I want nothing more than to be there for my child and help her. That being said - she moved up north - 3 hours away even after she found out she was pregnant because her parents moved up there. So, with things going nowhere even near talking terms, she being the way she is to me and now living 3 hours away - My family is saying I should think about letting her have full custody and possibly signing away my rights to her and her father to raise the child. The child is still not here and is a few months away - but I need to plan for the future and know what I should do. I would prefer to see my child and have at-least 50% custody but I'm not sure how we are going to be able to communicate on good terms & be able to drive enough to see the child and then when the child gets old enough - take them away from school and other friends. I have a huge problem just giving up custody then sending her a check if it comes to that and not even being able to see my child. Question is - what would my options be? What would anyone recommend? If we come to an agreement where she gets full custody and we draft a document stating that I will be held to no obligation - would that even hold up? Or is it a state thing? I want to either see my child or not see her and know its best for the child that way - the stress and worry would kill me. My guess is it wouldn't from what I have read. I feel like things are going to be really stressful for me at this point and I don't want her threatening me with not being able to see my child and whatever else she could do. What are my legal options?
So I met what is soon to be first child's mother back in May. We dated for a few months then I ended things - we just didn't have the connection. I met another woman and was in a relationship with her when the (soon to be child's mother) called me - telling me that she thought she was pregnant. I had her come to my office where we went and found out she was indeed....pregnant. I know this is all beside the point but still necessary. Since this time, I have ended the relationship I was in with the other woman and tried to work on things with the mother-to-be. Obviously - It is still not working out - at all, she is going through the lunatic stage and basically everything is my fault - I'm wrong - I don't care - etc etc etc when all I'm trying to do is help her and be there for her. I want nothing more than to be there for my child and help her. That being said - she moved up north - 3 hours away even after she found out she was pregnant because her parents moved up there. So, with things going nowhere even near talking terms, she being the way she is to me and now living 3 hours away - My family is saying I should think about letting her have full custody and possibly signing away my rights to her and her father to raise the child. The child is still not here and is a few months away - but I need to plan for the future and know what I should do. I would prefer to see my child and have at-least 50% custody but I'm not sure how we are going to be able to communicate on good terms & be able to drive enough to see the child and then when the child gets old enough - take them away from school and other friends. I have a huge problem just giving up custody then sending her a check if it comes to that and not even being able to see my child. Question is - what would my options be? What would anyone recommend? If we come to an agreement where she gets full custody and we draft a document stating that I will be held to no obligation - would that even hold up? Or is it a state thing? I want to either see my child or not see her and know its best for the child that way - the stress and worry would kill me. My guess is it wouldn't from what I have read. I feel like things are going to be really stressful for me at this point and I don't want her threatening me with not being able to see my child and whatever else she could do. What are my legal options?
Custody and Visitation Issues: Dealing with a Sticky Situation
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