My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Michigan
We have a custody agreement in place but when a holiday or extended visitation period comes up that does not favor him there is always some issue. He never has any clue what the schedule is yet he's always referencing it at the same time. This year is supposed to be my year with the boys for Christmas. He gets even number years, and I get odd. It's that simple.
For some reason though, he told the kids that they are with him for Xmas and the remainder of their break. They've also made plans for all these fun activities, knowing very well that it's during my time. But he knows that when they can't go, they will blame me. The Last two visits they came home crying, confused, and not knowing who to listen They're always stressed out and worried about who is going to be mad at them. He picked them up today and I reminded him that they need to be home at 9pm Christmas Eve. He flipped out as usual, and the kids left in tears once again. My son was texting me from the car worried about how mad his dad was and how he was yelling something about taking me to court and me going to jail, ect.
Because of all this my kids will have to spend the next 4 days listening to him & his family call me every foul name possible, and be told what a horrible mother and person I am. Even after they come home they will text them relentlessly about it. It's a never ending cycle. This happens EVERY single holiday I have with them, or when something doesn't go his way. I'm sick of the drama and my heart is breaking for my boys. What can I do to put a stop to this? He has the court order, and I know can read and understand it, especially when the schedule is in his favor. Is this something the court will even get involved in? I've tried talking to him but he completely stopped communicating with me almost 6 months ago when he was picked up on a child support warrant (my fault too). Without court intervention I don't see this getting better.
We have a custody agreement in place but when a holiday or extended visitation period comes up that does not favor him there is always some issue. He never has any clue what the schedule is yet he's always referencing it at the same time. This year is supposed to be my year with the boys for Christmas. He gets even number years, and I get odd. It's that simple.
For some reason though, he told the kids that they are with him for Xmas and the remainder of their break. They've also made plans for all these fun activities, knowing very well that it's during my time. But he knows that when they can't go, they will blame me. The Last two visits they came home crying, confused, and not knowing who to listen They're always stressed out and worried about who is going to be mad at them. He picked them up today and I reminded him that they need to be home at 9pm Christmas Eve. He flipped out as usual, and the kids left in tears once again. My son was texting me from the car worried about how mad his dad was and how he was yelling something about taking me to court and me going to jail, ect.
Because of all this my kids will have to spend the next 4 days listening to him & his family call me every foul name possible, and be told what a horrible mother and person I am. Even after they come home they will text them relentlessly about it. It's a never ending cycle. This happens EVERY single holiday I have with them, or when something doesn't go his way. I'm sick of the drama and my heart is breaking for my boys. What can I do to put a stop to this? He has the court order, and I know can read and understand it, especially when the schedule is in his favor. Is this something the court will even get involved in? I've tried talking to him but he completely stopped communicating with me almost 6 months ago when he was picked up on a child support warrant (my fault too). Without court intervention I don't see this getting better.
Intentionally Causing Conflict Over Parenting Time
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