So my son is 6 months old, and his mother and I recently had a falling out, I moved out and she moves in her "bestie" lap dog friend who is currently under parol. His mother has gone out of her way to make sure that I have no rights to my son what so ever, keeping me off of the birth certificate, and only allowing me to see him under her direct supervision, or the supervision of her mother.
We were together on again off again for the last 20 months or so. Throughout that time I was aware of the fact that she sold Marijuanna, a considerable amount, and until recently I partook so it wasn't an issue with me, I had even helped her traffic in few instances, which was completely stupid on my part but I was afraid that if I didn't she wouldn't let me be in my son's life. I've been employed for 8 years at the same job, work 40-50 hours a week, and have never been in legal trouble apart from a traffic incident many years ago. I've come to the decision that my son should not have to grow up around that, and I don't want her lifestyle around my son. She has recently started to threaten me with bodily harm, as laughable as I find that, and taken the stance of a "I'm better than you, and it's my way or the highway attitude," along with her friend/roomate who again, is a lapdog and does whatever my ex says. They also abuse prescription drugs, and drink heavily.
The last few months I have quit everything and am now living drug and alcohol free, and up to now I've been civil, and let most of everything slide off my back, but I'm tired of her hypocritical judgement, and control, and I want my son to live in a safe and heathy environment, but being as how I was an accessory to her misconduct for many months I do not know how I should go about taking the next step, Im afraid that my son will fall into state care, and that's something I cannot live with.
Currently I am getting myself established in a two bedroom home or apartment, and making sure I am the best father that I can be, paying her 200-300$ a month in support, or buying an equvilent amount of things my son needs. I do know I have to have a safe home, with his own bedroom before I can move forward, but I have no clue what that next step is going to be. Any advice is appreciated, thank you.
We were together on again off again for the last 20 months or so. Throughout that time I was aware of the fact that she sold Marijuanna, a considerable amount, and until recently I partook so it wasn't an issue with me, I had even helped her traffic in few instances, which was completely stupid on my part but I was afraid that if I didn't she wouldn't let me be in my son's life. I've been employed for 8 years at the same job, work 40-50 hours a week, and have never been in legal trouble apart from a traffic incident many years ago. I've come to the decision that my son should not have to grow up around that, and I don't want her lifestyle around my son. She has recently started to threaten me with bodily harm, as laughable as I find that, and taken the stance of a "I'm better than you, and it's my way or the highway attitude," along with her friend/roomate who again, is a lapdog and does whatever my ex says. They also abuse prescription drugs, and drink heavily.
The last few months I have quit everything and am now living drug and alcohol free, and up to now I've been civil, and let most of everything slide off my back, but I'm tired of her hypocritical judgement, and control, and I want my son to live in a safe and heathy environment, but being as how I was an accessory to her misconduct for many months I do not know how I should go about taking the next step, Im afraid that my son will fall into state care, and that's something I cannot live with.
Currently I am getting myself established in a two bedroom home or apartment, and making sure I am the best father that I can be, paying her 200-300$ a month in support, or buying an equvilent amount of things my son needs. I do know I have to have a safe home, with his own bedroom before I can move forward, but I have no clue what that next step is going to be. Any advice is appreciated, thank you.
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