My question involves a child custody case from the State of: California
I do not have a legal agreement with my son's father , he kicked myself and our son out and took my took my car, It was in his name because of my credit issues, but I paid for it. So I had to start over completely . After he kicked us out his girlfriend moved in immediately , we have had our issues, (threats and drama), but I don't fight because I don't want the drama in our sons life, I try to just brush it off , needless to say we don't very much get along. but through it all I have tried to do what's best for our son, his father gets him whenever he asks(not often) , I don't get child support and I always split holidays down the middle so that our son can have both families. I still have zero contact with my ex's girlfriend and things are finally getting into a normal routine and we finally stopped fighting, However recently I was sent a message confirming that my ex was smoking a lot of weed and doing other recreational drugs, I confronted my ex and he says he's quit but his girlfriend still smokes and had done stuff in the past . However I saw that my ex had purchased an item that is for recreation drug use for his girlfriend. which looking that up confirmed that it was for a certain type of drug use( the only time I met her she had clear signs of use). I am torn because I am a strong advocate against drugs, and I do not want that around my son , my son has just started spending the night with his dad (once every few weeks) and so now its really scaring me,and without proof I am unsure what to do , My sons father is very vindictive and threatens to fight me whenever he doesn't get his way , which is why he doesn't pay child support, because he states if I fight for money , he will fight for 50/50 custody. She works at a respectable job where this use is not tolerated and dangerous and rarely sees my son, but I don't feel comfortable with this around my son, but I don't have the physical proof to show anything except for a receipt...How would I bring this up in court without ruining my relationship with his dads side of the family , without proof, and keep my son full time?
I do not have a legal agreement with my son's father , he kicked myself and our son out and took my took my car, It was in his name because of my credit issues, but I paid for it. So I had to start over completely . After he kicked us out his girlfriend moved in immediately , we have had our issues, (threats and drama), but I don't fight because I don't want the drama in our sons life, I try to just brush it off , needless to say we don't very much get along. but through it all I have tried to do what's best for our son, his father gets him whenever he asks(not often) , I don't get child support and I always split holidays down the middle so that our son can have both families. I still have zero contact with my ex's girlfriend and things are finally getting into a normal routine and we finally stopped fighting, However recently I was sent a message confirming that my ex was smoking a lot of weed and doing other recreational drugs, I confronted my ex and he says he's quit but his girlfriend still smokes and had done stuff in the past . However I saw that my ex had purchased an item that is for recreation drug use for his girlfriend. which looking that up confirmed that it was for a certain type of drug use( the only time I met her she had clear signs of use). I am torn because I am a strong advocate against drugs, and I do not want that around my son , my son has just started spending the night with his dad (once every few weeks) and so now its really scaring me,and without proof I am unsure what to do , My sons father is very vindictive and threatens to fight me whenever he doesn't get his way , which is why he doesn't pay child support, because he states if I fight for money , he will fight for 50/50 custody. She works at a respectable job where this use is not tolerated and dangerous and rarely sees my son, but I don't feel comfortable with this around my son, but I don't have the physical proof to show anything except for a receipt...How would I bring this up in court without ruining my relationship with his dads side of the family , without proof, and keep my son full time?
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