My question involves a child custody case from the State of: CA
The Judgement was just signed and filed with the court, and not signed by a judge yet. My spouse had a painful affair, introduced our child to his mistress when she was 4, and stayed in the marriage for a year or so. Our 4 year old child told me about the friend she met, and was confused about what she witnesses.
Fast forward, my spouse moved out, and began brining this same woman around our daughter, asked our daughter to lie to me multiple times. At one point, our daughter told me she was asked to lie - I got my spouse on the phone, and he called our daughter a liar and she head him. Later feeling bad, he admitted he was indeed lying and apologized to our then 6 year old daughter.
This has been an affair that has been toxic for all, but for a child to be involved at this level is horrible. This went on for 2.5 years. My spouse also moved back home twice and left. Our daughter is also distraught by that chaos.
So, I finally filed for divorce, and we checked the box > Third Party Contact > the children will have no contact with > anyone we are dating, past or present, around our daughter to allow the minor child to get used to the dissolution of marriage for the next 12 months.
Its been 30 days since we both signed the judgement, and our daughter came home from her time with her dad and told me her dad had this same woman on speaker phone, and it made my daughter nervous. She did not want any trouble like she has had in the past. Then her dad began telling our daughter that his mistress now turned girlfriend has never done anything bad to her [our daughter].
My question is - how do enforce this 'Third Party Contact' provision? I am worried about this judgement overall and him breaking it, and it may just make the most sense and be better for my daughter to be with me - full custody - or at least less visitation for him at this point. Our daughter should not have to deal with this.
Thoughts?
The Judgement was just signed and filed with the court, and not signed by a judge yet. My spouse had a painful affair, introduced our child to his mistress when she was 4, and stayed in the marriage for a year or so. Our 4 year old child told me about the friend she met, and was confused about what she witnesses.
Fast forward, my spouse moved out, and began brining this same woman around our daughter, asked our daughter to lie to me multiple times. At one point, our daughter told me she was asked to lie - I got my spouse on the phone, and he called our daughter a liar and she head him. Later feeling bad, he admitted he was indeed lying and apologized to our then 6 year old daughter.
This has been an affair that has been toxic for all, but for a child to be involved at this level is horrible. This went on for 2.5 years. My spouse also moved back home twice and left. Our daughter is also distraught by that chaos.
So, I finally filed for divorce, and we checked the box > Third Party Contact > the children will have no contact with > anyone we are dating, past or present, around our daughter to allow the minor child to get used to the dissolution of marriage for the next 12 months.
Its been 30 days since we both signed the judgement, and our daughter came home from her time with her dad and told me her dad had this same woman on speaker phone, and it made my daughter nervous. She did not want any trouble like she has had in the past. Then her dad began telling our daughter that his mistress now turned girlfriend has never done anything bad to her [our daughter].
My question is - how do enforce this 'Third Party Contact' provision? I am worried about this judgement overall and him breaking it, and it may just make the most sense and be better for my daughter to be with me - full custody - or at least less visitation for him at this point. Our daughter should not have to deal with this.
Thoughts?
Enforcing Custody Orders: How to Enforce a Custody Order Prohibiting Contact With People the Parents are Dating
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