My question involves a marriage in the state of: IL
My soon to be ex and I have decided to get divorced 3 months ago after non-consensual sex, the first and only time he had ever done that. I am currently sleeping/ living in the basement. I have talked to an attorney. I was informed that IL is a no fault state so his violation of me will not matter.
I have been a stay at home mother for 10 years. The only break is when I actively went back to work 6 years ago when he lost his job. Once he started working again I became the homemaker again. He has 2 children in the home. I have 1 child in the home. She will graduate next year from highschool. It is important I remain in the school district. Rent in my area is very expensive. I do not work and am unable to get an apartment of my own. We have not yet started legal papers because in consult I was advised to wait for him to file. He has in the last 3 weeks started bringing his girlfriend into the home for sleep overs. He has exposed the children to her. He has sexual relations with her in our old bedroom while myself and the children are in the home. He is the only financial support at this time and has limited my money access by pulling all of the money from our joint account and giving me a 1000 allowance each month. I do understand that IL law will give me support, yet I will still be unable to afford rent on my own even with it.
What are my rights can I have her the girlfriend removed from my home? I almost have a retainer saved for a lawyer but I am finding it extremely difficult to save the $3k required when only surviving on $1k a month which I often need to use for my childs needs and gasoline.
My soon to be ex and I have decided to get divorced 3 months ago after non-consensual sex, the first and only time he had ever done that. I am currently sleeping/ living in the basement. I have talked to an attorney. I was informed that IL is a no fault state so his violation of me will not matter.
I have been a stay at home mother for 10 years. The only break is when I actively went back to work 6 years ago when he lost his job. Once he started working again I became the homemaker again. He has 2 children in the home. I have 1 child in the home. She will graduate next year from highschool. It is important I remain in the school district. Rent in my area is very expensive. I do not work and am unable to get an apartment of my own. We have not yet started legal papers because in consult I was advised to wait for him to file. He has in the last 3 weeks started bringing his girlfriend into the home for sleep overs. He has exposed the children to her. He has sexual relations with her in our old bedroom while myself and the children are in the home. He is the only financial support at this time and has limited my money access by pulling all of the money from our joint account and giving me a 1000 allowance each month. I do understand that IL law will give me support, yet I will still be unable to afford rent on my own even with it.
What are my rights can I have her the girlfriend removed from my home? I almost have a retainer saved for a lawyer but I am finding it extremely difficult to save the $3k required when only surviving on $1k a month which I often need to use for my childs needs and gasoline.
Divorce: Can You Get Your Spouse's Girlfriend Removed from the Marital Home
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