samedi 1 août 2015

Emancipation: 17.5 Years Old, Ohioan Family Trouble, I Need Out

My question involves juvenile law in the State of: Ohio
So, I'm 17 years and 6 months old, and I have some home trouble, to explain, I'm a very good kid. The worst thing on any records would be a detention from missing a homework, I never give many problems at home, just a little bit of an attitude, like every other teen ever has, but otherwise I don't party, drink, smoke, sneak out, none of that, but for whatever reasons, I'm not trusted at my home, and are put under unrealistic restrictions. I'm not even allowed to go to the park with my friends without getting the trust issues flaring off of my mother, as a perspective sort of thing. But the thing about her is that.. She has a tendency to fly off of the handle, to give examples I once forgot to take the trash out and got the "you're lucky your @$$ isn't 18 yet or I'd f$&@?!g throw your @$$ out." Or the one that inspired me to write this; I'm very particular about my room, it's my space and I prefer that to be respected, as I give the same respect for them, and I'm doing my makeup because we're planning on going to dinner at a nice place, which is totally cool nothing wrong yet, right? So my mother kicks in the door trying to like sing and dance to this god awful music she's playing, I know it sounds stupid. But it messed me up so I got a little ticky and told her I'd like her out of my room. To which she cuts the music and proceeds to yell full volume at me that she's going to do whatever the f$&k she wants to do it's her f@&$!?g house and she pays the f@&$!?g bills (she doesn't she's a stay at home mom, dad pays them, just to add to that ) which I get Yanno her house her rules. Cool whatever. This is where it gets "fun".. She proceeds to keep yelling full volume to tell me to get out of her house, twice. Then takes it back, slams doors around screams at the dog for licking her (which I heard from my room on the opposite end of the house) comes back in to yell at me for being disrespectful to her (mind you I apologized and explained myself with the utmost sincerity before she told me to leave) then got on the phone with her friend and complained until dad came home. To which my father told me I looked very nice today so she said "yeah she ought to for how mean she was to me" so I explained the story to him and he left the room to take the dog out to potty, mom then went on the same thing, and then said "if you don't like the f&)@!?g rules here you can f@&$!?g move out.
Which brings me to my point. I'm 17 and a half as said, and I have a few close friends who have all told me they will gladly provide me a place to stay, and their parents all have given the ok, I want to get out of here because my mothers first thing since I've been in 6th grade (I'm entering senior year now) is threatening me with making me leave my home. And I don't feel that that is a good way to be forced to live, in fear that tomorrow the place you live won't be your home, because of a petty slip up, I want to know my best course of action to leave here and not be forced to wait another 6 months to leave here.


Emancipation: 17.5 Years Old, Ohioan Family Trouble, I Need Out

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