My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Kansas
Our daughter will be starting kindergarten in August. Both of us live in separate cities in separate counties. My husband and I moved to our current home in the same county but different city in Feb of 2017. My ex and his then fiance bought a house in a different city and county in Aug of 2017. My ex filed papers in Feb 2018 or March 2018 trying to get residential custody of our daughter. A little backstory: we were never married and separated before our daughter was a year old. He lived over an hour away and so our daughter lived with me most of the time and I had residential custody with my ex having reasonable parenting time. When I met my husband in 2014 and became pregnant my ex decided to move back to his parents home and file for custody of our daughter. The court told him no and ordered us mediation. In mediation we came to the agreement that we would share 50/50 time with our daughter until she was to start kindergarten and then we would return to mediation/court and decide her school. Then the moves happened. We went to mediation and couldnt come to an agreement. I am a stay at home mom and wanted her to live and go to school where I live. He and his now wife both work full tie and wanted her to live and go to school where he lives. Well he ended up having his mom and a notary sign a statement saying that he lives with them and will continue to live with them. That way our daughter will go to that school district. Neither of us currently live within that school district. He then enrolled her in school there and paid her enrollment fees without my consent or telling me. We have joint legal custody and our parenting agreement states that we are to make educational decisions together. He didnt tell me what he did until several days afterwards. I then went into the school and informed them that this decision was made without my knowledge and that our parenting plan states we are to make decisions together. They said they were unaware of that and that they apologize. We go to court in a few days on July 12th. He obtained a lawyer and has made statements with the belief that he will "win" the case. For example, we plan to go on a vacation the first week in August. I have let him take our daughter on plenty of vacations and have never said no because I know our daughter enjoys these times away and has a lot of fun. And yet when I request a few days to go on a vacation with my family so that we can have fun with our daughter before school starts he tells me "i wont answer or make a decision about that specific email until after court this week."
He does have a lawyer and I do not. I am not sure if that matters.
Thank you,
Our daughter will be starting kindergarten in August. Both of us live in separate cities in separate counties. My husband and I moved to our current home in the same county but different city in Feb of 2017. My ex and his then fiance bought a house in a different city and county in Aug of 2017. My ex filed papers in Feb 2018 or March 2018 trying to get residential custody of our daughter. A little backstory: we were never married and separated before our daughter was a year old. He lived over an hour away and so our daughter lived with me most of the time and I had residential custody with my ex having reasonable parenting time. When I met my husband in 2014 and became pregnant my ex decided to move back to his parents home and file for custody of our daughter. The court told him no and ordered us mediation. In mediation we came to the agreement that we would share 50/50 time with our daughter until she was to start kindergarten and then we would return to mediation/court and decide her school. Then the moves happened. We went to mediation and couldnt come to an agreement. I am a stay at home mom and wanted her to live and go to school where I live. He and his now wife both work full tie and wanted her to live and go to school where he lives. Well he ended up having his mom and a notary sign a statement saying that he lives with them and will continue to live with them. That way our daughter will go to that school district. Neither of us currently live within that school district. He then enrolled her in school there and paid her enrollment fees without my consent or telling me. We have joint legal custody and our parenting agreement states that we are to make educational decisions together. He didnt tell me what he did until several days afterwards. I then went into the school and informed them that this decision was made without my knowledge and that our parenting plan states we are to make decisions together. They said they were unaware of that and that they apologize. We go to court in a few days on July 12th. He obtained a lawyer and has made statements with the belief that he will "win" the case. For example, we plan to go on a vacation the first week in August. I have let him take our daughter on plenty of vacations and have never said no because I know our daughter enjoys these times away and has a lot of fun. And yet when I request a few days to go on a vacation with my family so that we can have fun with our daughter before school starts he tells me "i wont answer or make a decision about that specific email until after court this week."
He does have a lawyer and I do not. I am not sure if that matters.
Thank you,
Custody and Visitation Issues: Supposed to Start Kindergarten Next Month
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