My question involves a child custody case from the State of: California
Since I found out I was pregnant the father wanted nothing to do with the baby. He got back with his ex and she sent me messages of him saying "**** that kid, the I only want anything to do with you" he's also sent me messages saying he wants no relationship. He has threatened me because I've asked for child support and his girlfriend threatened and told me that she resents my child and me and can't have "that" baby around her because she's had abortions. Through out the pregnancy I told him he's welcome to visitation if he wants it and he would continue to say no. We went to court and I have SOLE LEGAL AND PHYSICAL custody and he has NO VISITATON because he said he didn't want it to the mediator. They ordered him to pay child support and the day after he said that because of that some things are going to have to change that aren't going to work for me. I received text messages saying he doesn't want your baby get it through your thick ass skull a week before he said he wants his visitation back. I told him that he could meet him, but I'm not going to just hand him over to him and I also said I didn't feel comfortable with the girlfriend there. He said he wasn't willing to meet the child if his girlfriend wasn't there and also said if I want him to have a father than I need to tell the judge to lower child support. I told him that would come in time when he has him some of the time. He got mad because I won't allow the girlfriend around after threatening the baby and not agreeing to lower child support and is saying he is going to take me back to court. I am concerned for my child in their care. What kind of chance does he have of getting visitations back and what kind of visitation schedule would he get if he got any? He's never met the child or ever asked about him until after he was five months. Although I've allowed the grandma to see the child three times which he is using against me.
Since I found out I was pregnant the father wanted nothing to do with the baby. He got back with his ex and she sent me messages of him saying "**** that kid, the I only want anything to do with you" he's also sent me messages saying he wants no relationship. He has threatened me because I've asked for child support and his girlfriend threatened and told me that she resents my child and me and can't have "that" baby around her because she's had abortions. Through out the pregnancy I told him he's welcome to visitation if he wants it and he would continue to say no. We went to court and I have SOLE LEGAL AND PHYSICAL custody and he has NO VISITATON because he said he didn't want it to the mediator. They ordered him to pay child support and the day after he said that because of that some things are going to have to change that aren't going to work for me. I received text messages saying he doesn't want your baby get it through your thick ass skull a week before he said he wants his visitation back. I told him that he could meet him, but I'm not going to just hand him over to him and I also said I didn't feel comfortable with the girlfriend there. He said he wasn't willing to meet the child if his girlfriend wasn't there and also said if I want him to have a father than I need to tell the judge to lower child support. I told him that would come in time when he has him some of the time. He got mad because I won't allow the girlfriend around after threatening the baby and not agreeing to lower child support and is saying he is going to take me back to court. I am concerned for my child in their care. What kind of chance does he have of getting visitations back and what kind of visitation schedule would he get if he got any? He's never met the child or ever asked about him until after he was five months. Although I've allowed the grandma to see the child three times which he is using against me.
Father Gave Up Visitation, but Wants It Back
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